Share Your Losses to Heal from Grief
(Extracted from "Parables on Grief and Loss")
You know you shouldn’t overlook the possibility that life is planned in just such a way as to cause you grievance when you least expect it. It happens often that, at the worst possible moment, another loss occurs, one we hadn’t anticipated or prepared for.
This is a miracle sometimes, a true test of our strength. Oh yes, most of us would have preferred to read the book, but then Life’s lessons are a book, aren’t they? One that we open to a new page every day to see what troubles or delights will be ours this time.
Share your losses. They are real. Tell someone you hurt. There’s no shame. The shame is only in keeping all that pain to yourself. You will not heal that way. Let it out. Find a way and let it out. And the next time your world collides with itself, you’ll be ready.
This love of ours that dwells so deep
Comes from our Souls, our hearts to keep
Without any praise, no need to arise
Too many tears that fill up our eyes
Can we uncover this pain once again?
And surrender to Love our need to begin
Encouraging ourselves to rise up and cheer
“Lord, hear my song, so glad to be here”
Maurice Turmel holds a PHD in Counseling Psychology and was a practicing therapist for nearly 25 years. Today he is a Speaker, Author and Songwriter. Spirituality, Inspiration, Motivation and Creativity are main interests. Dr. Turmel has authored The Parables series of books and a Spiritual Self-Help novel "The Voice."
He has 4 CD compilations of Inspirational Blues available at: http://www.cdbaby.com/turmel
He can be reached at drmoe@mauriceturmel.com
He can be reached at drmoe@mauriceturmel.com
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